Maybell, yep, that was very cryptic. The thing that happened was trivial and yet you were about to break up over it? I'm glad you were able to recover from that, sweetie.
I find it amazing that there are men who will accept us the way we are, lugging all the baggage we have. In the beginning with MyNica, I found I had to explain myself quite often, and that frequently involved a story about mr p. It's not that I wanted to talk about him, but I spend my whole adult life with him and didn't have any other context. And MyNica put up with me brilliantly, and patiently showed me he was not mr p. And that's nice.