Sorry to hijack your thread blueboy, but i've read Zues's story too and I am living those same days. I reckon my STBXWW is busy with 3 men, for money and leisure. She had attempted suicide before i met her so i need to stay ahead of the curve.
Sorry that you had to go through it Zues but your lesson will help us all.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.