Your situation has changed. She feels that. She is lost/confused. She is reaching out to you NOT for you. I believe sandis advice is spot on in regards to how you respond.

Maybe she is coming around. Maybe she is just temp checking.Maybe she is a lot of things.When she really wants back in it will be obvious.Until then you stick to your path.

Even if she is coming around it could still be a long time coming. You could drive yourself crazy analysing and wondering about her.

She is thinking about you. Otherwise she would notcontact. Taketthat as being a good sign BUT only a sign. Keep DBing and keep posting.

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together