So I did a little snooping last night.

I discovered that OW2, the one that he's been involved with since autumn 2012, the one he left me for and is now having a full blown PA with, actually lives 5 minutes walk away (if that).


How do I feel about it? Meh...

Had a few thoughts about it last night, like how easy it must have been to actually see her while he was still at home. Felt a bit angry and physically sick last night when I realised.

But today I'm like, meh, so be it, that's his jam. I'm not sure I really care that much.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017