Focus on you. Check/notice what W is doingbbut do not concentrate on that.

I think you are doing well and would not rule out reconciliation happening.But that is just my opinion and I am no expert. However what I have observed here is that it can move fast or really slowly and the LBS cannot control that. He can hinder it though. To avoid doing that follow the rules and the advice from Sandi. Focus on you.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together