5 weeks in since she said she doesnt love me.(2)

[Natus]

Hi Natus,

You know where this is leading to. A big no.

She needs to get her comforting from someone else who is not M, least of all M to her H's OW. Perhaps you could suggest to her to get IC?

Agreed JKSD, i wont lie though there is a little devil on my shoulder telling me how sweet revenge on the OM it would be. Alas i should file that under fantasy. I have actually suggested a number of times for her to go see an IC.

Howe've love you for doing it, no not at all.

An adult pulls their weight and expects another to do the same. No attaboys for that. Just do your share, especially the things your partner hates if you enjoy doing it. When your partner is overloaded or ill then a bit more heavy lifting.

That's my take on it.

V

Gotta agree with this. Although i think to take it a step further a women will love the idea of a man that cooks, cleans etc but you will never actually be loved for it.