Hi Natus,

You know where this is leading to. A big no.

She needs to get her comforting from someone else who is not M, least of all M to her H's OW. Perhaps you could suggest to her to get IC?

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.