I get what you mean. I am a fixer too and I was like, what do you mean I can't fix xh? (As you can see from the use of 'xh', I really couldn't fix him. But then I came to this site only after I was D)

Natus, make use of your drive to fix things to fix yourself. When you're in a position of strength and not fear, you can see things so much better, and not be swayed by your emotions. And that is when you have the best fighting chance for your M.

P.S. I sincerely believe that Dbing is also for saving Ms too, but like what we all say here, save yourself first.

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.