So i've been keeping in light contact with OM's wife. Just updates from time to time, you know to make sure our spouses are behaving.
Its grown a little in frequency, mostly her venting about how the H has and is treating her. Me lending a sympathetic ear.
She laments not having a life, she stays home, makes dinner and lunch for H yet H is still being wayward. So i encouraged her to GAL. Let him watch the kids for once.
Now shes asked me out for drinks, that we go to the border (cause thats the only place to get drinks~ its only 15 mins from my house) and thats where OM and my W went for drinks with their office mates. A little sweet revenge in the mix.
Man I want to but i cant help but think this will not bode well for my sich. Is it GAL to go out with the OM's wife? or is it a big no no.
Assuming we can even keep this strictly platonic but i also have my doubts there. We are both hurt, neglected and yearning for comfort / reassurance.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.