Was the trigger a dealbreaker for you? After the A and D ordeal, I finally realised the wisdom behind finding someone you can leave with, instead of finding someone you can't live without.
It's interesting that you mentioned your fear of being emotionally manipulated by NG. Has he ever done anything to warrant this fear? Is this a gut feeling or a waiting for the other shoe to drop fear due to the D?
But I have to say, overall, NG sounds lovely.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
