Thank you buttrfly. I had a tough weekend, worried sick and not sleeping again and it was so nice to read this before I left for work and my appointment this morning.
I found out Saturday that w's move in date is the 12th of this month so every other week is out of the question. I met with guardian attorney this morning and we talked for 2 hours and I think it went well. She had the same concerns I have that I didn't even have to bring up. She is going to meet with w and then do a home visit with each of us. I feel better after today, hopefully I can sleep tonight.
I texted with w tonight and we agreed to every 2 weeks for the summer. I spoke with guardian attorney about this today and I feel it was best considering where things are at in the sitch. I just can't see how any other schedule is even close to acceptable for the kids or me. Best of the worst I guess.
I asked w if I could have them to go out for ice cream tonight and she dropped them off for awhile. We had a good night and w was here for about an hour when she picked them up; however, I think she was being nice since she got her way (in part at least). Kids had a good night though, so in turn I did too.
Another part of my stress/not sleeping is my brother is getting married this weekend so the cats out if the bag because the last thing I want to do is answer where w is all weekend. For the most part, I feel people here are really the only ones who understand, as IDT this isn't a normal split.
