I want more from you, to dig deeper. I have been waiting for this exact moment.
It's time for big shift.
Let me just review those little detached shifts.
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Boundaries
You noticed you have few boundaries.
Those you had were trounced over.
You permitted this for the sake of peace.
You think your skill set on arguing is poor, so you can't argue your corner effectively.
You see disagreement as conflict and avoid it.
You tread on eggshells.
So what is the little shift?
You acknowledge it.
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FOO
Your mother is a big controlling pain in the ass.
Your father a placator.
You are using passive master techniques (Google Al Turtle).
They aren't working.
You love your mum and dad and it would be easier if you didn't.
You can't discuss it.
It's influence isn't fully understood.
Black hole.
So what is the little shift?
You put it out there after spending two weeks deciding if you should.
(Can't kid a kidder)
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Affirmation
You require affirmation and have never asked for it.
You still unsure if you are awesome or no.
I am not going to tell you, that's your stuff to know about you.
You have not yet reached Kubler Ross anger.
So what is the little shift?
It's getting closer.
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So let's join the dots..........
I am expecting you to practise on me.
I just treated you in the same way as W and mum.
So boundary violation, in validation and putting you down.
Let me have it. Do not agree with me on things you dislike, tell me I am disrespectful and rude in the above. Explain I have defined you, telling you what you are.
That's because I was all of those things. In the above I did all the things that are diminishing you.
Intentionally, to make my point.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
