The thing about divorce that's one of those mega blessings-in-disguise is that you find out who really has your back.
I don't know what organization you're with that would tolerate someone treating your personal life as fair game in a professional setting... but I would contemplate a change of venue as well. NOT COOL. I'm sorry you had to live with that.
I'm not sure what to say to you here, because I know that there were periods when my divorce was in process that outraged was the only possible response (even when it wasn't totally called for). So I just send you hugs and I hope it gets a lot better, very soon.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
