SD, you have the ability to change your name. I was LDWife when I started posting here and now I'm Aquarian... just go to "My Home" and edit your preferences. You can change what your "name" is at any time.
Just so you know though, I personally feel you have absolutely nothing to fear or be ashamed of. You are such a sweetheart SD and if reading your posts wouldn't make her stand back and see what a wonderful husband you are, then your marriage isn't just sex starved. Chin up... you da man!
