One of These Days

[mleigh4]

Cali, well big bro, let's see. We all knew W and OM would never last long, they are both too broken. She hates being alone and on her own, and you....well...your a prize and gem of a man. She knows that, and I have to say, I am not surprised about the turn of events.

I am glad to hear you staying firm and detached. She needs this time alone to work through her issues. If she jumps into another R because you don't come running, I can guarantee she will remain broken. Maybe when talking with her, mention to her how important it is for her, right now, to focus on herself. Maybe even share how much time alone has helped you? I know my H heard that when I said it because he repeats it often.

I am proud of you, and quite amazed, that after everything, you didn't shut her down. I am very happy to hear she is going to therapy and pray she finds her way through her fog. In the meantime, stay true to yourself and keep things calm and stable for your S. I would stay in the distance and let her work her way through this one, but that's me. You never know, with proper therapy, space and time, maybe some of your old W will come back.