Well, I actually managed to truly enjoy some time today. Went shopping with the kids, bought some recreational stuff for them, stuff we already had but xW will get in the D and I need to replace. I used joint money for it... I have given way more than 1/2 to her, I don't feel bad about it.
In a letter from xW's atty, it was brought up that I said to the kids that the asset division was not fair. I asked the kids if they thought I said that, they said no. So W is making this up completely. S11 is actually who said it to me. So when asking them about this tonight, they said W told them it wasn't fair because I make so much more than she does. What does that have to do with anything? After support she will be making as much as me if she goes full time. And I gave her a 32k check. Dumb! I leave statements up to them, let them bring up what they want, validate, that's it.
Then the kids start telling me she is looking at motorhomes, so they can travel. She's going to buy a 4K motorhomes and travel? With my kids? Scary. And she plans to buy a boat, a truck, etc. She has some big dreams! I'd think she'd be more worried about finding a house.
Oh, bad news, some of the loser friends made up. Bummer.