Hi Ciluzen! Firstly, thank you for your amazing post and advice on my thread, you are such a great strength buddy to me!
Love the sound of all your GAL activities over the weekend - hope your foot is OK! It's great that your D is able to open up to you about her feelings on H and the situation - good for you both I should think.
Your H still doesn't seem to be facing the reality of what he is doing does he? Expecting to be able to keep the tractor etc when he has nowhere for it to go. They just want to shove us away in a shoe box somewhere and life go on as it always did. We can only watch and wait and hope they wake up and smell the coffee in time!
Good luck with your search for an IC. I saw one a few years ago after H's EA/PA event no. 2 and she wasn't great. Kept wanting me to harp on about my childhood and my parents when I knew that it bore nothing to the situation I was in! My childhood did not make my H do what he did nor my reaction!
@Doodler - love your IC's explanation of how marriage works. My H needs to read it!
