So nice to hear about your vacation! You really needed that. I'm a firm believer that a vacation can refresh and renew and change your perspective. Jamaica is spectacular and I can see why you'd want to bring little G there.
I agree with Job and I used to always save my change for vacations - it does really add up. In Canada when I used my debit card (rather than credit card) I use "round it up". If I spend $6.50 on something , $3.50 is automatically deposited into my vacation account (one not easily accessed). I barely notice this but it does add up and then I have an automatic transfer for a comfortable amount taken from my chequing account once a week to the vacation account. Slow and steady.
When I first signed up for online dating I saw a widower on there with a daughter about my daughter's age. I thought how nice it would be to date someone who was not divorced. Someone I would avoid talking to about divorce. But alas - he was not interested in me so that failed. A few months later I met Josh - he was never married so I guess the same logic prevailed. I never saw myself with a man who had never been married or had kids yet that has worked out very well for me. Sometimes we don't really know what is right for us. This guy certainly sounds like he could be a good match for you. I strongly suggest not meeting each other's kids for a while though. Little G really has a hard time with attachment (who wouldn't) so waiting until you are sure might be best.
And it's always best to meet early on. You will know if there are sparks.i hope so!
