Right? Well its never boring that's for sure. I laughed at the timing of it all, just like over a year ago I drop the rope, she anchor checks and panics.
Yes that's probably the biggest lesson I learned, sure she may miss the family, may miss me .... but I think its out of loneliness more than any awakening. Am I against R .... not completely (90%) ... but I am against it right now (100%) knowing she has yet to do the work. The hard truth is there may be to much damage, may be easier to start over fresh with someone new than to relive and rehash all that has been done to this point.
If someone new showed up 30 minutes late its due to traffic, stbx would not be awarded that assumption ... food for thought
I agree ... she does need to be alone but I do not think she will be able to, most likely OM will get sucked back in, I am not aware of what happened this time nor how long its been (I did look this morning, she deleted her FB account, not sure when that happened either) ... but she has always been in someones tree for as long as I have known her. She needs to sort herself and her life out and decide what she wants. If that's the M and family she will need to go to REI and buy some Mt Everest type hiking gear as its going to be a mountain to climb. I do not say this in a punishment type attitude, but I have learned so much and have my boundaries firmly in place I will not fall for the puppy dog eyes ever again.
