Blu Please keep posting. I have gained so much insight and support from your story in regards to mine. It seems we have similar personalities and were married to similar kinds of men. I struggle daily with the simple disbelief that the man I thought was "so nice, smiling and good" could do this to me and to our family. He is having a PA and EA since she lives across the Atlantic and we live in the states with an old girlfriend and has decided that this is THE R for him as ours was awful. He moved out 7 months ago. He wants to be "friends" now. Prior these last few weeks he had complete access to me and the kids. He cooked dinner for us, went out to dinner with us, would spend the day at the house, coordinate the day but would sleep elsewhere and when asked he would say he's only here for the kids and wants nothing to do with me. Did your H ever want to introduce his affair partner to the children? Can you or others comment. In the spirit of complete detachment should I agree? We have no agreements no custody arrangements. We are still legally M. My heart says no way especially since she lives in a different country and we are still M and I will not be physically there to support the kids emotionally. I just posted my story on Newcomers under MLC/Foreigner. It's not out of observation yet. You could comment there or here. Thanks so much! Jamaica
M 10 T13 D9,S7 BD 8/17/2014 S 8/2015, moved out 11/7/15
