If I were to take what you posted, I would say that your H needs some serious counseling. He has a lot of conflict and dare I say guilt. He wants what is comfortable, but does not want responsibility for his actions. You taking an opportunity for a session with MWD is a great chance to help you even if he does not participate.
You continue to do the right things for yourself and your kids and things will work out regardless of what that looks like down the road. You are really doing well in spite of it all.
(((SadSara)))
Keep your chin up, you are doing great.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
