I agree to an extent that being easy to get along with is good. But being a doormat is NOT.
STBX asked for your weekend, and you just rolled over and let her have them? For what? If you had other plans, then fine. But it sounds like you felt that giving her whatever she wanted would make things easier or better for you. Or would help her to love you more...? Im not quite sure.
It's time to knock that off. What are you scared of?
