It's amazing really. When I post stuff here, and get advice contrary to what I want to do, I change and follow the advice. smile I guess that's why I continue to post!

I have decided against addressing the affair, and demanding the OP be out of the picture. She knows I don't want him around my son. I guess I have to hope she respects that.

I'm detaching little by little again, it's like I'm back to square one really. I've got plans for this Saturday and I'll be keeping my son Th and Fr. I'm going to be the best I can for him, as always. He truly is my inspiration. If I didn't love him so much, I never would've found DB and started on this program.

I'm thinking about calling a coach tonight, so I can establish clear goals and have even more accountability than I get on here.

Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.