Urgg:

First she says she is not wanting to participate in the family counselling. Now she says wants to. Help, Help, Help.

Is this a game she is playing? Is it part of the loss that she may be feeling since she moved out.

I know this is a long way from detaching but cut me some slack people.

I go to the trouble of setting this up. She tells me that she won't participate and that a Dr she saw says she should not.

She moves out - She tells me know that the boys want her there. When I asked them - They told there mother that the Dr said it would be better if she attended.

Is this a good thing? a bad thing?

BTW - she hates the Dr we are seeing. He is the Dr we went to a few MC sessions with. She did not like it that he told her that our marital problems were her fault too.

Ok - Don't believe anything she says and only 1/2 of what she does.

Help - input please please.


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017