Turns out H knows me too well. He cancelled his plans (which he booked before we knew about the ceremony) because he felt he would be wondering if I was stressed about missing the ceremony and that would spoil the evening for him and for me.
He said he's not upset with me, just the situation, but I'm having trouble believing that.
This unfortunately pokes at his issues and my issues.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
