My Wife Walked Out

[cbtdad]

Man I'm sorry to hear about that RSG. It's certainly tough and so many of us here have been through it. The first time I was here three years ago there was an OM. It was tough to swallow. This time around it doesn't seem to be one, but there is no way for me to know 100 percent.
So what Ive done is work on me. Do the work that I know contributed to my breakdown in the marriage.
That's all you can do. You need to be the best father for your son as you can possibly be right now. You have no control on whether she ends the A. Zero. You have to understand that. There is no reason for you to even bring that up.
My W and I were physically separated the first time around. Once I knew there was an OM for sure, I stopped being her "crutch"
That doesn't mean I stopped helping and being a father to my son, but I stopped being a doormat for her to walk on.
I'll never forget the first time I really was done being that person. My wife was crying about how hard things are right now, etc.
I said,"that must be rough. but you have someone else to discuss those things with now"
The look on her face was priceless. And it only worked because I had genuinely detached at that point.
Trust me, a WW will have her cake and eat it as long as you let them. I suggest you detach, GAL and do not bring up A as quickly as possible. I know it's not easy. But it's what must happen