Rose,

I am not sure if this is good advice or not but want to comment. Is there family that can go to the boys ceremony so they have someone there.

If H is that sensitive I agree that you should go as long as you are OK with the outcome to your children.

It is a tough call because I did not focus on my W in the past and am paying the price now.

You may have to have a talk with the boys afterwards to explain why you did not attend.

Hope this helps.

H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...