Sorry sandi and coconut. Wrapping my head around the analytical side of the process. If I am co-dependent on my WW, and she returns, will that not mean that my co-dependency and attachment will remain?
In other words, if the aim is to detach, how are you able to do that if you're reconciling?
But this is not about you, on this thread. Don't take that harshly, I just mean that you are in an entirely different place than Coconut. It is not a one-size-fits-all. What you may need to do at the moment does not apply to Coconut's stitch. Understand?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!