I have noticed on this board and for myself that it is useful to fully examine anything you really feel that you "HAVE TO DO". Ask 6ourself why. With that answer ask yourself why/for what purpose. Keep repeating until you reach the core reason. Then decide if the behaviour or action is appropriate
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
