Ok. We've been together for five years. Married for three. Our son is 2 and a half. I don't have serious anger issues and I spanked him (one whap on the butt through his pajamas) to teach him that what he was doing was inappropriate. Today she texted me and told me that it wasn't the spanking (that was just part of it) it was the fact that we just don't work as a couple. My wife suffers from bipolar disorder and has been un-medicated for the past three years. She and my son moved out two months ago. We are both 33 years old.