Hi Kyle This is all very fresh and raw for you and your looking for answers you may never get. The best advice I was given at your stage was forget all the little signs you are , or think you are seeing because they don't matter.
If your W changes her mind then she will make it very clear.
I've been on here almost two years and I've seen the pattern repeated time and time again. Some of us get spew. Some of us get that we are the greatest person on earth but not for them. We all think our spouses will be too proud to comeback even if they want to. If your Ws pride is more important than her families happiness , then do you really want a W like that ?
Again , please relax back from all decisions or choices until you have had time to accept what's happening and your not reacting from feelings as opposed to facts
Re your clothes , if you want them , get them , if not , don't It's what suits you and if W cares or not , remember it doesn' matter
