she offered me the boys again today, so of course i took them even though its her weekend.....we i came to pick them up, they were all swimming, so i jumped in an swam for an hour and we all played. together ,it was fun.
then she asked what i was thinking about us? she said do you want this to work? i hesitated and said yes, i would like us to work, but its not time yet. i need more time.
then we discussed an issue that we have, and we resolved it peacefully in under 2 min. she was like wow, we just did this...
she then said i know that you dont want to hear about this, but i think that you should know, that my feeling for OM are fading fast. that now she realized that it would have never worked. that she would have been unhappy with him. this is a first for her to admit it. she says that the feeling arent totally gone. but that she no longer sees him as an option. that now that the spell is broken, that all his flaws are coming to the surface. etc.
good signs all the way around. oh and she said that she see us being able to work. but that now is not the time yet, to be anything but friends and get to know each other a little bit.
