Great advice, I have already met with an attorney it wasn't free and it was not great advise, she knows I went. Up until now I didn't do anything else, but told her that he had great advise. But I am going to contact one tomorrow as I have gotten a name of a very good one here in town. Zuess, yes it has been about 8 years that I know of. Different dudes, etc. I uncovered some attempts 10 years ago and put the kabosh on that. Of course when I bring it up she always says,,,,see you just wont ever be able to let this go will you, speaking of our current situation. I am not sure I have any other option at this point. I have not separated any of the finances yet, my work is slow and hoping I don't get laid off because my concentration level has been low. A couple of people there are aware of my situation but I could lose my job soon. I am in a tight situation. I do have some back up $$.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
