Hi Sunny, I agree with RD and you can make whatever choices you want without any embarrassment. I would only want happiness, peace and joy for you going forwards... And you know best what feels right for you.
I think the main thing to remain aware of is whether we are operating from a place of need or want - and also whether we are willing to live with all circumstances of the relationship. You've mentioned potential concerns there, and only you know whether you can accept and work with everything or whether something is ultimately a deal breaker for you.
You certainly seem keen on Mr Nica though and best of luck for you if you and he being together is what you want.
Xx
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus