MLC? It has crossed my mind a few times while going through this sitch... I've said it before, but my W looks very young, she's forty but looks 25. She was 32 when we started dating, and I can't tell you how many times she's been carded for 21. Anyway, the fire academy has gotten her into great shape, she's constantly posting selfies and revels in everyone's compliments of how young and beautiful she looks. I've wondered if she is suffering from a MLC, she seemed to change shortly after her 40th birthday, about 6 months ago.
I have mostly put those thoughts aside, as she's not as out there as some of the stories I've read or heard about, it's mostly just her wanting to work out to get in better shape, dressing in clothes that accentuate her looks, and posting pics that look great. But this morning she says that she asked one of her FF friends (the one who massaged my shoulders) for the name of the Doctor who did her boob job. She says that she's always wanted a boob job, but her mom would always give her hell about it, I said it's funny you've never mentioned it to me in 8 years...
She then asked me what's wrong, and I just said that I woulda thought youd talk to me before getting ready to make an appointment, she said she's only asked for the name and hasn't made an apt.
She then asks what I think, I told her that I understand the affect it has on how clothes fit and feeling attractive, but that I prefer natural when it comes to intimate time. I don't think she liked my answer, just said that she didn't want to go huge, just to go from a b cup to c cup.
Oh well, hopefully the cost is prohibitive, cause something tells me my opinion and wants aren't going to take priority, just one more reason I'm not sure how I want us to end up, together or D.
Anyway, now I'm starting to more seriously wonder if she's in a MLC.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized