I've got one goal for the next couple of weeks, I'm going to focus on studying for my driving theory test and try and get done. I'm still waiting for a driving instructor so at least this gives me a head start. I'm also going to get back in to playing football (soccer) is it was something I used to do quite frequently before I had my children.
Can I ask for some advice? I still have items in our home after 6 weeks of being out of the house should I take the lead and tell my wife that we need to sort out a time where I can come and collect everything? She seems happy to gloat by wife lots of my stuff still there
Can I ask for some advice? I still have items in our home after 6 weeks of being out of the house should I take the lead and tell my wife that we need to sort out a time where I can come and collect everything? She seems happy to gloat by wife lots of my stuff still there
Depends, do you want the stuff so you have it, or just so she doesn't have it? If you want to get it to make her life more difficult then don't do it.
You shouldn't take any action because of her, anything you do should just be with you and your son in mind... You don't want to play games, it will not help you move forward.
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It's not anything that will make her life hard, it's mainly clothes. The reason I haven't got it yet is because I honestly thought I'd be back home by now and didn't see the point in moving everything out to move it all back in again.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Just find it odd that she is so certain it is over but has not done anything to remove me from the house if that makes sense. If I'm honest by taking my stuff out I think it will help me let go of our old R.
