Thank you for keeping my feet to the fire. I was excited initially, but have come back down and focused on MY improvements. I did tell her what I was doing next Saturday, but I'll try to be more vague in the future.
The subject was largely silent, until she Facetimed me from the pool to see if it worked and my son said "hi Richard." He doesn't learn names that well, and the guy who was running the family group was named Richard.
I just asked. She is seeing someone. I told her I don't want him around my son while we're married, and if she wants to continue to see him we will have to get together immediately and begin to work on a divorce. I kept my cool, and was pretty good. I do not want my son around someone else while we're married, and it's completely unacceptable. I gave her a few days to think and report back. I believe she's going to keep seeing him.....
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.