Kyle, you'll find she's better at DBing than you are for awhile (especially detaching), except your GAL, being a great D and being level headed will outshine her in every way. For now, she doesn't want R talks and that's all you want, you are emotionally connected to her actions and she's not...

Just turn your focus on you over these next two weeks, get out everyday and do something. Spend time with family and friends.

Do not reach out to her unless it's regarding your son, but don't reach out for your son if your doing it just to talk to her.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized