My Wife Walked Out

[RSG]

Update!
DB is definitely working. Wife came over today to pick up little guy, and we went to the pool as a family. We had a great time. I have hidden everything I have re DB, and my goals. There is a small thing on the fridge I have for reminders, but I figured it was safe because it's vague.

We talked, and she's REALLY having a hard time with her emotions. She said she felt like a quitter and that she was sorry and cried. I looked in her eyes as much as possible and did not offer physical sympathy, but explained to her that I want her to be happy and that I've chosen to focus on myself and our son and to give her time to find herself. She's started working out again, which is something she loves. She was surprised I had been taking things so well and seemed pleased with that.

In addition, she would talk about things related to a divorce saying she's not interested in money or possessions but to simply make sure we're keeping care of our son together. Then I asked her if that's where she was, and she backtracked saying she'd continue to take things one day at a time. She likes being on her own so she has more time when our son's not around, but she has a VERY hard time taking care of him alone. She asked what I've been doing for me, and I said walking the dog more, doing reading (I'm a big reader, but obviously didn't mention my new subject!), will be going out next Saturday, etc.

We said goodbye, I didn't force any hugs or anything just goodbye. I did love on my son but didn't have any inkling to get emotional. I'm home now, and I'm doing me. It's working. DB is definitely my marriage bible!

I wrote down last week the chances she'd return. I had it at 25%. Now I went back and put it at 35%. Great progress, and I'm pleased. But now isn't the time to celebrate. I know I've got to keep it up or I will lose this progress. It sure feels good to know I'm headed in the right direction though.