First. Thank you Sandi for commenting. I have always appreciated your perspective and I hoped you were still reading my story.
Second. If I in anyway offended anyone with my pms comment above that was not my intention and I apologize. It was a comment made with no merit to it and entirely as a joke at my ex wife's expense.
I agree with you Sandi about not taking. The spew. Is arguing back even calmly going to be a bad thing? No probably not. Why should I take her anger. He anger wasn't because of menstratuon. It was because she is mad.
After expressing that I think we should look at who the boys live with tho I believe the 50-50 is best she immediately saw it as I am trying to take her boys away. I know this because her sister texted me asking if that is what I was doing. And if so that it's not a bad idea....
So instead of her seeing that I want to work with her regarding the children, she gets mad, there is no reason I should be brow beat by someone thy couldn't give any less of a thought about me.
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.