Her birthday was Sunday. I had been thinking about what I would do especially with the kids. I decided to have them all draw her a card and that was it. This is definetly not normal. I always buy them gifts to give her. I know she was annoyed. When she realized. We had baseball games for my son until mid day. After th e games my 17 yr old came to me and said mom wants her car detailed for her bday. I said ok but that's not something I'm doing she said, but I don't have money. I said I'm sorry, I don't know what to tell you
On the way home a bunch of th baseball families were stopping for lunch and asked my son and I. I coach on the team. I asked her if she minded and she said no. 15 mins after we were gone she texted me this...
Just for the record I think it's super selfish of you to have done this! It's MY birthday and you bet ill remember this for future! You should have NEVER put me in that position because obviously he all ready knew about it and IM not going to be selfish! So YOU should have said you guys can go next time and you should have told him that he should be with Me on my day! I guess you have just set the tone on how you will be handling things in the future! Selfishly as always and I should have never expected anything different! I hope you enjoy your [censored] lunch!!!!!!!!!!
I responded with... I'm sorry you feel that way. I did ask you because I don't know what all you were doing today. You could have said no and I asked you with Matthew not there. And I continue to make sure the kids acknowledge your days and get you something when appropriate. Im not sure what you mean by set the tone. I feel like I continue to make sure we stay as a family unit the best we can during this and set a positive tone to the kids in regards to you
She went out last night staying over night downtown with her girlfriend (I don't buy that one)
M:13 years Known her for 30 years! Me: 40 W: 38 Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7 BD: 02/07/2016 Found EA: 3/22/2016 Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16 Got Papers: 6/15/16
