continued detachment, anxiety, and joys of limbo

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Ah, the secret agent stealth mode. I love it.
Enjoy this weekend, and let me tell you. When you are served, stand tall, look the server in the eyes and thank them for the service. Do it with all the confidence of a championship boxer. You may be nervous under the surface, but you won't show that as you stare down the server with that boxer mentality. Growl a little bit if you have to to really intimidate him. Grrrrrr
Practice this in fromt of the mirror. First it will make you giggle. And second it will provide you with confidence. Trust me, as I look back, I wish I would have demonstrated more confidence. This process is not near the death blow it felt like at the time.
Take it from me, you have been preparing for this for months. Nothing changes your current living life situation by having this move forward. You are already living a life on your own. The paperwork changes nothing.

Also, I love the edgy humor. It may not have anger in it, actually as I say this I know that it is not really anger. I believe my WAW accused me of anger because I tended to have the " edgy humor" approach. It suits you and adds one more layer to what makes Phoebe so awesome and cool. One more aspect that someone will find attractive in you. I do.

Make it a great day my dear Phoebe.