and her EA. she started talking to a guy at her gym. then they facebook friended and started chatting. ( a lot of this is hind sight) then exchanged #'s. she held onto her phone like it was her own beating heart. she would spend hours a day talking to him. and it got wierd and i got suspicious. she would go hide in the bedroom for an hour with her phone. go for a walk with her phone. etc. and when i would come into the room, she would quickly put her phone down and act guilty. the rest of her behavior changed dramatically too.
this lasted about 2 weeks before the bomb dropped. she stopped doing all house work. we had no clean dishes, none. we had no clean laundry. and she and i were having sex every night, which was new. she started acting really really strange all the time.
then, i snooped her phone when she was in the shower, and found all these messages with him saying "ive fallen in love with you" im married i dont know what to do. lets run away together. etc. it broke my heart.
we had a huge fight. she said she would stop. she broke contact with him and was super sad for a few days, and then she started back talking to him. we fought over it every day for a month until we separated over it.
the EA turned into a full blown relationship for a few months. then they broke up. we got back togeher and then she contacted him a few months later. i almost broke it off with her. looking back i should have.
she stopped, and we got throught it. then she contacted him again and i left. thats when i started with DB.
right now there is NC between them. and it seems to be sticking this time. (he told her off)
