What if he's not committed?

[PsySara]

I already consulted with a lawyer when all this went down. H stands to be ruined financially. I can't file for divorce until DEc 2016 as I am moving and the state requires you live there for 6 months before you can file.

I've been trying to GAL but hobbies are fairly difficult. I have 3 children under 6 (one born in Jan) and work full time. I am single parenting every evening and when I am not on call for the weekends. The nanny is stretched pretty thin by the time I come home so asking for more hours is out of the question. I move at the end of June and should get some relief as I am moving where there is family.