Yes, it is, but the WW has quite a few illogical behaviors. As I have previously said, the WW is motivated by her selfishness. She is also jealous. She may not want to be the LBH's W............but that does not stop a lot of WW's from being jealous of their "position" they held in the H's life. In other words, they aren't ready to see anyone replace them as the H's new woman/wife.
It seems the majority of WW's are extremely manipulative in the life of the LBH (even if she leaves him). So many nice-guy H's have been led around by the nose for years and don't stand up to the manipulation..........and/or bully tactics of his WW. Therefore, she's out there making a new life, yet, she is controlling her H's life to do as she wants.
Some WW's secretly do not want to see their LBH moving on happily without them. Oh, they may say they want their H's to find someone else, etc., but they really want him staying home and pining away for her. Yes, it sounds crazy..........but then, so does the rest of their mind set.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
