In the UK - PT 18 'Dark O'Clock'

[Sotto]

Hi Huddy, I would merely say 'I'm sorry you feel that way' when she says stuff like that. Then maybe go on to mention plans you have on Tuesday with them.

When you start on the 'well you decided to live so far away' theme, I think it sounds a little blamey and would probably get things onto the back foot. Whereas validation is more neutral. If she ever says I'm not bringing them, I would calmly confirm its your day with them and make your own arrangements to go collect them. Why does she have the car and you don't?

Hope you have a good day Huddy! X