My Wife Walked Out

[RSG]

Well, kind of a weird night.
I picked up our son from my parents. He was thrilled to see me, and instead of wanting to stay and play, he wanted Daddy to take him home!
My wife didn't text me until about 530PM, asking how his day was. I got a new iphone, so we could do facetime with him. She was excited I did, but didn't explicitly say so. She said she'd call around 730 to say goodnight. I call her around 715. I have looked at my son's ipad and see that some guy is in charge of the iCloud, using his credit card and my wife is part of the "family group." I ask her if there's something I need to know, and if someone is paying for her itunes. No, she says. She's calling Apple. In 2 or 3 minutes the family section of iCloud is gone. We text a little more about how weird it is. Surely our son has screwed around and done something she says.

I take my son upstairs so he can drink his milk, wind down and get to bed. He's exhausted, and falls asleep about 30 minutes earlier than usual. It's 8 and we try facetime, it doesn't work. I call, and my volume is screwed up. We discuss how we're going to handle next week with him and therapy this summer, but she can't hear me and I need a few minutes to think about what she's asking. She goes on for 2-3 minutes without stopping, demanding yes or no answers when I take a second to think about what she's asking and gets wildly impatient. I tell her I understand she wants to know how we'll keep him, but she can't hear me and something's wrong with the volume. She says ok, we agree on a plan and I say I'll google the problem.

I google the problem, and figure out facebook drains the battery and affects the volume. THAT is weird lol! Then I call Apple and ask about the iCloud. The person who opens the family account sends out an email and anyone part of it must accept (ie my wife had to have accepted this invitation). There's no way my son could do this as her email is not open on the ipad. ??????????

We text a little more about the issue, she says Apple has quick service. She says she's tired and we'll talk tomorrow when she gets here. I ask if it's anything bad, in a joking manner. She says we're just going to iron out details and she's going to bed. I tell her I hope she sleeps well and I'll see her tomorrow. She says see you tomorrow.


I don't believe she's seeing anyone. She's been so irritable, ugly and argumentative that I think she'd throw that in my face. She also knows that there would be little chance I'd want to save our marriage if she is cheating on us. (I would likely lay into her, look into a lawyer) She also noted that, instead of having fun with her parents this weekend, it was "weird" and when I asked what was wrong she just ignored it. Something else for her to be stressed about. Her Mom is sick with an alcohol related remedy that has her on pills, otherwise she'd have psychotic episodes and would barely be able to hang on to life. Her Dad retired from the Army 3yrs ago, and spends his days taking care of her Mom and taking her 14 yr old sister to school. She's very protective of her Dad, and sad for the position he's in.

She's coming tomorrow morning, as she wants to take him swimming before nap. He will love it.