What if he's not committed?

[twinmom]

You need a consult with a lawyer just to be educated on your rights & to give you an idea of what the financial side might look like. You don't need to say a word about this to your H, just be informed.
Then you need to focus on you, how is your social life? Hobbies? Interests?

Take the focus off of H and put it on you! Make yourself a woman only a fool would leave.