WW was in a fender bender Friday. Apparently she had been coming to bring me a surprise birthday treat at work when she rear-ended someone because of wet roads. The thought was nice; of course then she ruins the gesture by complaining (to me and facebook) that "she knew she shouldn't have come, and should've just took a nap like she planned." Her ongoing narrative is that whenever she tries to do something nice for other people she gets [censored] on and so she should just be selfish.
Had a really good solo trip\visit with family. Almost broke into tears a few times... On the drive down and when people asked Qs re what the wife was up to, but kept it together. Despite the rough feelings, got a bunch of quality visiting in. The drive home was a lot easier than the drive down and I was in a lot better mood and have been able to stay pretty upbeat even once home.
WW was fairly amiable when I got home this evening. I mentioned I was going to get groceries and we ended up going together. A fair amount of casual conversation. I'm pretty sure she is giving signals that she would be open to sex. Very tempted, but resisting so far. Wish this could just be a normal birthday...
Me, WW - Upper 30s BD - Apr 1 2016 EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away) Confronted wife about EA - May 17 Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11