Last night went to her family's side for bbq and karaoke. Spent most of the time chatting away with her brother and family. Realized i got a good relationship with her family. I am accepted, respected and am well family. Her sister (the only one W confided in) talked to me and hopes i will hang on. She doesnt want to see us separate. Shes been down the road before. So atleast i know shes in my corner when she spends time with my W.
W was bringing me food and beverages during the BBQ, it was alittle surreal. Like everything was normal. All in all it was a nice family time and i let myself enjoyed it.
I dont know why but i think she expected me to pursue her last night when we got to bed. She laid down and faced me for a few minutes from her side of the bed (she usually faces away immediately). I kinda avoided eye contact though, If she wanted to talk she could have said something. Im really not going to initiate. Im done pursuing until i see real signs.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
